Black-tie optional means that guests have the option of wearing their most formal attire (think: an evening gown or tuxedo) but can also choose to wear a formal suit or cocktail dress instead. Generally, a black-tie-optional dress code means that the couple and their wedding party will be dressed in black tie. It's therefore courteous for guests to reflect this level of formality in their own attire. You can either go full-on glam in black-tie-worthy attire or opt for a slightly more relaxed but still formal ensemble.

For Women: The biggest difference between black-tie attire and black-tie-optional attire is that full-length evening gowns are preferred but not a must. A midi-length dress is also acceptable—just avoid anything above the knee as it will be too casual and not appropriate to wear at the cathedral. For Men: Classic black-tie attire means that tuxedos are mandatory, while black-tie optional means that the tuxedos are optional. It's completely acceptable to swap out the tuxedo jacket for a structured suit jacket and wear an understated tie. Colors to Wear and Avoid: For black-tie optional, try dark colors such as black, navy and charcoal, and deeper jewel tones like emerald and burgundy. Avoid anything too light or bright.

Yes! There is a marked parking lot on Pennsylvania Street as well as a secondary lot on Logan Street. If you are staying at the Embassy Suites, transportation will be provided to and from the church.

Please help keep the Cathedral Basilica a space of quiet prayer and respect for Our Lord and those visiting. Please maintain a reverential silence. Silence your cell phone and speak in a low voice. Do not enter the sanctuary area, which begins at the steps in front of the altar. Food or drinks are not allowed. Please remove your hats.

Yes! The Embassy Suites offers valet only parking for an hourly rate or overnight for guests staying at the hotel. Additionally, there are multiple parking lots on Stout Street, only a 5 minute walk from the hotel.

As stated in the name, Embassy Suites offers premium accommodations. Every room onsite is a suite! Dining: Free made-to-order breakfast Complimentary evening reception On-site restaurant Room service Fitness and Recreation: Indoor saltwater pool Fitness center Conveniences: Digital Key Connecting Rooms Pet Friendly ($75/night) Check in: 4pm Check out: 11am